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Upon wondering randomly during reading week (or maybe even a week before this), and also based on the observations I made so far, there are different types of smiles that people showed, whether it is the normal case during a social interaction with other people, or the more rare case when they are interacting with other types of "being" (or him/her-self actually).
1. Forced/Fake smile
This is the kind of smile that you would give to your boss or someone who you feel has a higher "status" than you, but you're not comfortable with him/her yet. People usually do this when they are trying to leave a good impression (which most of the times backfire because it's kind of obvious). This is actually really easy to differentiate as people tend to be overacting if they are doing this. Effort needed Energy spent : a lot
2. Courtesy smile
Smiling for the sake of it. Because you think it is appropriate to smile. I won't blame you, I do this lots of times. And I personally think smiling is a way for me to be more positive about the world, and also from what I've heard, it is contagious as well! Seeing people smile makes me wonder why I'm not smiling. Effort needed/Energy spent : normal
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Let me make a small intermission here.
All of these actually applies to "laugh" as well. smiling and laughing tend to go together anyway :P
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3. Happy/Fun(ny) smile/laugh
You're having fun, or your happy about something. maybe you just received good grades, maybe your crush likes you back, maybe your friend just told you an awesome joke, or maybe it's as simple as seeing the sun rise,etc. Anywho, this is probably the healthiest and take least effort. EN/ES : not much
4. Genuine laugh/smile
this is when you don't really care about what others think about your laugh/smile. By this I mean, say, the happy laugh from before, you might sometimes try to laugh a bit more to gain attention (to the subject, say a good joke, you want everyone else to hear it as well). Gaining attention here is not a negative thing (is it even a negative thing to begin with?), since you want to share your happiness with other people as well. That is not the case with this type of smile/laugh. The big thing is you are really, sincerely smiling or laughing from the deepest of your heart. Usually people do this when they fall in love, or they just achieved a life-long dream, or something like parents looking at their children succeed, enjoy their life, be passionate about something, etc. EN/ES : none whatsoever, if anything, it increases your energy :p
now let me tell you about a different topic that is closely associated with me : Handsome
okay to make it more general, Physical Appearance is probably the closest thing I can get.
I am personally a true believer of "Beauty is in the Eye of Beholder" (or was it "to the"? oh well)
And it's not rare for me to see someone (a girl in particular), and after knowing her a bit more, makes me think, "Oh, she's actually quite pretty ". A lot of it, I think, has to do with me liking her personality (okay so I'm just gonna assume it's a she :p).
"yo dude, what's your point in bringing all this?"
so, last week, I had a long day, didn't sleep for more than 36 hours and was still counting.
anywho, that is when I am most "drunk", cause I don't really drink, but I usually match pretty well with a "drinking bunch" even in my normal state.
oh darn, too much backstories
ANYWAAAAAY, for some reason I was talking to a close friend of min and I told her she's pretty. I mean my normal me would probably say that from time to tieme, but still. (STOP GETTING OOT, anyway,) She asked me what was my reason. and it hit me. I thought , maybe it was just because I was"drunk". But it seemed a bit random (well I am random but,.. okay I will stop here), so I tried to think, and I remembered what happened a week before. I was with her, and she was skyping with her boyfriend. Now I was with her to talk about some "serious" stuff, and even though she laughed here and there, most of them were number 2 or sometimes 3. Again, that's not a bad thing, if anything, I felt bad that she had to do lots of number 2, maybe because I wasn't in the best of mood either. Now a few minutes after she started skyping with her bf, she started to show 3 and 4, and trust me guys, people look the best (hansomest/prettiest) when they are genuinely smiling/laughing. I guess that's why people look the best when they're in love.
Back then, when I was dating someone, people close to me tell me I was more handsome than I used to.
Okay they were my family members, but still!
so in the end, I have no idea what I was saying at all.....
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Okay I'll try to summarize..
I love smiles. and laughs. and sincerity. oh and people.
well that was anti-climactic...
caaaaoo
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